Random photo day, or, I found my camera cables!

From a trip to the wildlife refuge:

What’s in her hands, you ask?

Lots of rocks, of course.

 

In honor of my sweet cousin Kellianne:

For my Auntie (and anyone else who hasn’t seen the new house):

(I’ll post pictures of the rest of the house later, these were just what were on my camera.)

The living room.

The “school” area.

My craft closet.

The girls’ room.

Their awesome wall stickers.

The view out their window.

The view out the kitchen window.

A squirrely friend in the back yard.

That’s it for now. I’m so glad to finally have my camera working again (the charger had been missing too), so many pictures to take!

At this moment, morning edition

It’s 7:22.  It’s surprisingly sunny outside, and my house isn’t freezing.

The girls are awake, but aren’t getting up until 7:30. This is my new attempt to get Z to stay in her bed at night – if she gets up after bed time for a reason other than the bathroom, she has to stay in bed later in the morning to make up for the sleep she missed. Did she miss a 1/2 hr of sleep? Don’t go getting technical on me. Both girls were up at 7, but have been pretty pleasantly reading books.

I had the weirdest night of dreams ever. A Twin Peaks themed restaurant in Santa Cruz, driving through San Francisco with Bob Schreck, staying in a friends house and discovering Tiny awake with her kids at 3 in the morning, a Kenya themed musical, people on stilts, it was all a bit much.  Tiny also had dramatic dreams, she was crying at 3 in the morning (in reality) that she wanted to sing the Happy Birthday song. Her dreams are apparently a bit more mundane. Or maybe not, who knows? Maybe she wanted to sing to someone on stilts.

We have preschool here today. We’re talking about the letter S. We’ll be screaming, shaking, slithering, singing. I made fabric snakes for them to draw on with fabric marker and then stuff with rice, and then we’ll sew them up and they can take them home. Don’t you wish you were coming?

I need to go downstairs and clean my living room. Z created a “sleeping party” down there yesterday, with pillows and blankets spread out for everyone.

This week is jam packed with play dates and activities. I’m not sure how that happened. Every week I swear that I’m going to keep things more open, and then they just fill right up. But we have a play date with new friends too, so that should be fun.

It’s 7:30 and the natives are restless. I’m going to go free them from their cushy, homemade quilt padded prison.

What’s going on with you at this moment?

Books I’ve read

These posts is usually “Books I’ve read this month”, but I’m behind. So here’s what I’ve read in the last couple months.

Momfulness: Mothering with Mindfulness, Compassion, and Grace by Denise Roy: This was really good, though I can’t remember anything specific from it a the moment. But that should be chalked up to the fact that my mind is a sieve recently, not to the quality of the book. The title pretty much covers it, it’s full of ways to approach day to day mothering in a more mindful way. I will admit that the term “momfulness” kind of squicks me out. But that’s just me.
Time-Out for Parents: A Guide to Compassionate Parenting by Cheri Huber and Melinda Guyol : Another book about mindful parenting. (If you don’t know the term mindful, it’s all about being present in the moment, taking a step away from the immediate reaction to assess what is really happening rather than what your preconceived or conditioned notions are telling you is happening.) I adore Cheri Huber, she speaks my language. This book in particular is extraordinarily useful, as is her reminder to stop, take a breath, and look non-judgmentally at what’s happening inside of you and outside of you. And to do that over and over and over and over and over and over, and to do it every time you remember to do it, so that when you’re in a crazytown insane kid moment, you will do it automatically.
There Is Nothing Wrong with You by Cheri Huber: My dad brought me a box of stuff that I’d left at my parents’ house since college, and this book of Cheri’s was in it. Another fantastic one, this book centers on self acceptance and self compassion. She talks a lot about emotion, and how emotions aren’t good or bad, they’re just emotions, and if we can accept that, we can deal with the emotions rather than being controlled by them. Really excellent.
Family Math for Young Children – This is really a curriculum type book, but I read it cover to cover so I’m counting it. :) It has some fantastic ideas for exploring math with kids. I’ll be doing most of the stuff in it with Z this summer.

I’ve also readLittle Wizard Stories of Oz by L.Frank Baum, and Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (again! I think this is the third time) with Z. Right now we’re reading the Mother West Wind ‘Why’ Stories by Thornton Burgess.

I’m in the middle of Keeping a Nature Journal: Discover a Whole New Way of Seeing the World Around You by Clare Walker Leslie and Charles Roth, which is lovely, and a biography of Thomas S. Monson, and it seems like something else as well. My reading has been really scattered lately, and a lot of it has been dabbling in different education and curriculum books. Hopefully more novels will make their appearances soon. I did just get The Weird Sisters by Eleanor Brown from the library- I’ve wanted to read it, so I was glad to see it hanging out on the new arrivals shelf.

I’m also working on a list for a new book club that I’ll be asking everyone to bring to the first meeting (if you’re one of them and you read my blog you get an early heads up!) – here’s some of my answers so far.

5 books you love

The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald

Brideshead Revisited by Evelyn Waugh

A Moveable Feast by Ernest Hemingway

The Hours by Michael Cunningham

Franny and Zooey by J.D. Salinger

5 books you hate (or at least severely dislike)

Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte

Great Expectations by Charles Dickens

The Sunday Philosophy Club-Alexander McCall Smith

I’m sure there are 2 more…

5 books you’ve always meant to read

One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Middlemarch by George Eliot

Watership Down by Richard Adams

The Orchid Thief by Susan Orlean

A Farewell to Arms by Ernest Hemingway

That’s it so far. And it’s time for me to go to bed. What are you reading? Any suggestions for me?

 

At this moment

It’s pouring outside. Pouring.

I should be asleep. I’m not sure why I’m not asleep. Why aren’t I asleep?

I should be sewing if not sleeping. We had a tragedy in our little group of friends this week; one of my dear friends lost her husband- his heart just stopped. It’s been shocking and saddening and horrible, and at the same time there have been tender mercies. On a purely personal level, it’s given me an opportunity to put into practice lessons that have been surrounding me lately about mourning with those that mourn. This friend has an excellent ward, who is more than taking care of her and her family’s physical needs, and I struggled with what I could possibly do to help. I settled on making a quilt for her. I can’t fix anything, but I can sew. I can create something, and somehow that brings me comfort, and hopefully will bring her comfort. But through all of this I keep thinking how so much of our (my) efforts at such a time are to make ourselves feel better… I don’t know. There’s so much for me to think about and learn.

The girls are sleeping, which is a blessing and gift from God. Seriously. Tiny’s been having problems with her lungs, which resulted in a trip to the emergency room last week, and things seemed to be getting better until they didn’t, and she was having episodes every 4 hours and was up at least twice a night, which meant that I was up at least twice a night. That wasn’t pleasant, and neither was I.  But we’ve got her on different, well, expanded medication now, and she’s doing much better. (Knock on wood.) Modern medicine truly is a gift.

I just discovered that both B and I would rather pay $50 more for a product (in this case a dollhouse) than pay that same amount to ship a cheaper product. The Land of Nod has their normally $200 dollhouse on sale right now for $54, and their furniture sets for $5, but the shipping on $84 worth of stuff is a whopping $51. That’s insane. I’d rather pay $100 for a dollhouse on Amazon, and have it ship for free. Somehow that’s less offensive to my sensibilities. But if you think otherwise then you should go check out the deal.  :)

I probably have more to say, but I really need to go to bed. I feel like there’s been a lot I’ve wanted to post about, but I haven’t gotten to it, for various reasons. I’m observing Lent by sacrificing mindless web surfing, which has been really very effective, but it means I’m not meandering around deciding to post randomly. And my cable that hooks my camera to my computer is missing, so I can’t post the pictures I’ve taken of the house. But I will try to post something of interest sometime soon, including what books I’ve been reading. :)

In the meantime, what’s going on with you at this moment?